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21 Top Fetishes Known In The Gay Dating World

Posted on October 29, 2020

In the adult dating world, most sexually adventurous people understand the meaning of fetish and how it has differences when compared to kink. They do have noticeable or obvious distinctions. When you talk about kink, you consider gay dating and sexual encounters that are not traditional in a partnership or escort session. These might include things like paddling, bondage, and submission. In some cases, people think of fetishes as using objects such as jockstraps, articles of clothing, whips, dildos or a specific material, which people react to sexually in order to enhance or improve their sexual experiences. Let us take a look into some of the objects that get gays to respond in a sexually explicit way to live out their fetishes and fantasies.

Gay fetishes

Leather

One of the most common materials that are known as a fetish is leather and this is especially true of those in the gay world. It exemplifies the look of a biker on display. It is form fitting and a global staple for those in the gay culture. In fact, during a sexual session between two gay men, leather harnesses are used to engage and turn the session into something hot and explosive.

Rubber

Rubber is another sexualized material, which is common in the gay dating world. Both leather and rubber emit the same emotions among gay partners. It is not uncommon to see men wearing full rubber body suits, which is a great turn on behind closed doors. In most cases, rubber is not extensively used to make harness like leather is. However, men are given various options as it relates to the material of choice that will turn them on.

Rope

Another material commonly used in kinky sex like bondage is rope. It is used to tie up participants. In fact, it is one of the fetishes known in the gay community. Other materials that are used in bondage are lather cuffs, duct tape, neckties, and zip ties. However, rope is known to be the most dominant one. It is so much more romantic and rustic than the duct tape. This could be due to the fact that duct tape is used in robberies and not a sexy restraining material like rope is. When rope is used, it calls to mind the participant's long held fantasies of being captured and tied up.

Used Underwear

Some men love to have used underwear in their sexual encounter. This is one of the fetishes that can be considered kinkier than others. Having unwashed underwear play a part in a sexual encounter tends to be off the cuff, but very enjoyable for many gay partners. Several London Escort Reviews are notorious for inserting this kind of fetish in its verbiage.

Skinheads

A skinhead is a guy that wears a certain hair cut; possibly also a skateboarder, but overall, just dresses like a punk, which is a fad. This has become a fetish for some gay men who want to use this as a form of humiliation. In some cases, it is also a form of ownership. This kind of fetish does overlap with the skateboarding, fisting, urination and rubber fetishes.

Armpits

There are other gay men that have the 'armpit' fetish, which is not easy for others to understand; except the people that view it as an amazing way to get turned on. While many people use deodorant to stop the armpit smell, the gay man who has the 'armpit' fetish will see it as a way to enjoy sex.

Uniforms

At a young age, most people in the United States are trained to respect anyone in uniform and that includes the military and the police as well as firefighters. For this reason, no wonder, it has become a fetish by many Utah escorts and gay men who want to experience the same respect during sex. It is a fetish that many of these men have in the LGBT community.

Gay uniform fetish

Razors

You probably think it is crazy to include 'razors' into the mix, but believe it or not, this is one of the fetishes that we just could not leave out. And, it is not about hurting anyone; so let's make that disclaimer. Razors are used to shave each other. Partners think it is really cool to use their razors to shave hair from each other's body during a sexual encounter. But, in this case, it is known as more of a kink than a fetish. In fact, razor shaving can boost a sexual arousal and make the actual encounter more enjoyable.

Urine and Spitting

Urination is a fetish that both men and women enjoy; whether in a heterosexual, homosexual or lesbian partnership. It is also called 'watersports.' And, in a sexual encounter, each partner will pee on each other. In some cases, they will even drink the urine. The same is true for spitting on each other. Many enjoy the spitting while others enjoy being spat on during sexual intercourse.

Gas Masks

Gas masks used for chemical warfare are used by many gay couples. It is a unique fetish, which involves the hardcore sex. The imagery of the gas masks depicts the Cold War and an inherently revolutionary aspect of warfare. It is not as harmful as World War landscape because the participants use the gas masks as a rubber fetish and breathe play.

Food

A Food Fetish is not the same as consuming aphrodisiacs such as chocolate and oysters. You can have foot fetish for any type of food such as steak or cheesecake among other things. You don't have to actually eat the foot to enjoy its satisfaction. Many people use strawberry and whipped cream during sex and find it very fulfilling.

The Feet

So many men and women love foot fetishes. This is a well known fact. There are some that just love to see and touch someone else's feet. There are others that go a step further to tickle, lick and massage the feet. There are even others that use the feet to penetrate the anus and vagina of the other sexual partner. In the same way, many men love to touch, lick and sniff women's shoes.

The Hands

The hands can be a sexual symbol for a lot of men. It might seem strange, but there are many men who find the hands to be sexy. In some cases, the hands are used in fisting, but a hand fetish does not have to be linked to this. Fisting is where the entire hand is inserted into the vagina or anus using a lubricant. There are so many gay partners that get aroused from this. Some people just love the texture, shape, look and feel of the hand and find it to be sensual to touch during sex.

Medical

Some guys love to be probed and what better way to do so than using medical gear such as catheters and speculums, which is used in a doctor's office. And having a gloved hand and a lab coat in the mix adds even more pleasure.

Enemas

An enema fetish is known as 'klismaphilia.' It is commonly initiated in straight porn and with amateur gay partners. Enemas are similar to douching, but more in the anal cavity cleansing. It is used to clean the anus so as to enjoy sex that is not messy. Some people find this to be quite sexual.

Diapers

Diapers are used to depict an 'adult baby' during sex. It is a kinky practice to see another man acting as if he is an infant or baby. Wearing a diaper is a fetish and adult diapers have become a huge industry as a result. There may or may not be any feces involved in this practice. Seeing someone in an adult diaper might just be an erotic stimulation.

Balloons

Balloons are known for use during sex as a prop for popping it. It is considered to be erotic because it provides a tension and the idea of popping the balloons releases the tension.

Stuffed Toys

Some people have a fetish for stuffed toys. It gives them an arousal of sorts. In fact, there are some people that keep a collection of stuffed animals to use during a sexual encounter.

Socks

You would never have known that people had a fetish for socks, but they do. In fact, there is a fetish for every type of clothing. However, stockings and socks seem to be the closest to the underwear fetish. People just love sniffing dirty socks and don't ask why, but they do get a kick out of it.

Facial Hair Fetish

Hair on the face, beard, arms, chest and other parts of the body seem to carry a fetish for some guys. It is not surprising. This is especially true among gay men who have a lot of hair on the body. It is an object of affection and sensually provocative to many.

Mannequins

Statues and mannequins are unique fetishes. Men use inflatables and sex dolls to enjoy their fetish for these kinds of objects. This practice is known as 'agalmatophilia.' These men find it appealing to be aroused by anything that looks like a human being.